Fact Checked by: Dr. Nicolette Natale

If your time and getting real results are important to you in your search for love (and they should be), you may be considering enlisting the help of a professional. While many people start by turning to dating apps (and some have good luck), others quickly realize that dating apps still require considerable effort and may still feel like an uphill battle.
Enter Three Day Rule. Three Day Rule is a professional matchmaking company offering to do the work for you. Named after a popular dating rule cliché, this professional matchmaking company gives you the chance to work one-on-one with a professional matchmaker (a real person) to find the man or woman of your dreams.
I can hear your questions from here. Is Three Day Rule worth it for me? How good are they at what they do? How does TDR work? Is this the same Three Day Rule I saw on Shark Tank (Spoiler: it is!)?
In this Three Day Rule review, I’m going to dive headfirst into all of these questions and more. I’ll share my personal results, give you some insight from my interview with Talia Goldstein, the founder of the company, and so much more. By the time we get done today, you’ll know definitively whether it’s a great fit for your relationship needs or not.

Reasons Why You Should or Should Not Sign Up
When it comes to professional matchmakers, there are quite a few options out there. Unfortunately, most of them have shown struggles living up to their commitments to deliver quality matches and justifying their higher price tags. If you need an example, just take a minute to read about the legal troubles of matchmaker It’s Just Lunch.
Is it the same story with Three Day Rule? Thank the heavens no. In fact, Three Day Rule looks to be a breath of fresh air in an industry crowded with pretenders. Let’s get into it.
Yes, it’s not an inexpensive option.
First, I want to get something out of the way upfront. Three Day Rule may be less expensive than most other matchmaking companies (especially when you factor in all the value you get), but it is by no means inexpensive. Memberships start at $5,900 and go up from there for higher levels of service. When you look at companies like Tawkify where pricing can be as high as $70,000, though, TDR’s pricing seems a bit more down to Earth.
If that price point is worth the investment to you and within your wheelhouse, stick around. If it’s not, you may want to consider checking out a leading dating app that uses automated matchmaking at a much lower price point.
The ideal customer is a pretty wide range.
With that said, who is the ideal customer for Three Day Rule? Well, in a recent interview I conducted with Talia Goldstein, the Founder and President of Three Day Rule, here is what she had to say:
We work with clients ages 20 to 80. We’re nationwide. We have an LGBTQ department, so we work with a lot of clientele. The main theme is successful, busy professionals, that’s typically who the client is. And the clients that we love working with are the ones that are really ready for a relationship, and they come into the process with an open heart and an open mind, and they’re willing to trust their matchmaker and the process.

Watch our full interview and discussion with Talia here.
So, what stood out to me during my testing and research? The first thing I really liked during my review of Three Day Rule was the added amenities to support your journey that are included for free in every package. These include a free professional photo session to help you get some amazing pictures and free professional dating coaching to help you get a leg up on the competition. These are invaluable perks no matter where you’re at in your search for love.
The attention to detail is impressive.
Second, I’m a big fan of the attention to detail Three Day Rule provides when looking for matches. They do things like have you send in photos of people you find attractive to curate stronger matches, really get to know the core of who you are and what you want, determine your six most important non-negotiables (and respect those choices), and vet all of your matches face-to-face before they send them to you.
Expect to get what you pay for (this is a big positive for Three Day Rule).
Is Three Day Rule worth the higher price tag? I think so. If it’s in the budget and finding that special someone is truly important, this is a phenomenal next step. Company Founder Talia Goldstein says it best, “You are deliberate about building the career and life you want, but have you put that same drive and ambition into dating?”

But before you go running out the door, let’s talk about any potential drawbacks to be aware of. I’m not trying to say TDR is not an amazing matchmaker; I just want to make sure you have complete information before getting started. I already mentioned the pricing is higher than with dating apps but much more affordable in the matchmaking world, especially with all the extra added value. If you’re budget sensitive, this could be a drawback
Your personal experience will depend on where you live.
Three Day Rule is also really only a good fit for people who live in one of the 11 major cities the company currently services which include Boston, Chicago, LA, Miami, Orange County, NYC, Philadelphia, San Diego, San Francisco, Silicon Valley, and Washington DC. The one exception to this is that if you’re open to traveling to meet someone in one of these cities, you can still use the service and you’ll still be taken care of. If you’re not open to travel and don’t live near these cities, though, it’s not going to be the right fit.
Here’s the bottom line. Three Day Rule has the intimate feel of a small and personalized boutique company but the reach and resources of a major corporation. It’s the best of both worlds. If you’re serious about finding love and want the help of a seasoned professional, use the link below to schedule your free consultation call now.
Three Day Rule’s Biggest Pros and Cons
3DR Pros
- Stellar track record with 10+ years in business
- Attention to detail with high-quality matches
- Free professional photoshoot included
- Free professional dating coaching included
- Less expensive than competitors
3DR Cons
- Not ideal for people living in rural areas
- Smaller userbase than more commercialized options
Accolades and Awards
| Category | Ranking | Testing Score |
|---|---|---|
| Best Matchmaking Service | #1 | 9.42 |
| Best NYC Matchmaker | #1 | 9.28 |
| Best Chicago Matchmaker | #1 | 8.90 |
| For Professionals | #2 | 9.63 |
In This Review
Test Results | How It Works | Testimonials | Features | Interviews | Pricing | Shark Tank
Three Day Rule Testing Results
Our team has extensively tested (and re-tested) Three Day Rule over the past 5+ years. Here are our most recent findings.
| Test Category | Results (out of 10) |
|---|---|
| Safety and Security | 9.6 |
| Popularity and Network | 8.8 |
| Process Evaluation | 9.8 |
| Pricing | 8.9 |
| Support Resources | 9.9 |
| External Reviews | 9.7 |
| Overall | 9.42 |
Learn how we test and score matchmaking services.
Few companies go to the lengths Healthy Framework does to test and evaluate matchmaking services like Three Day Rule. But due to the higher price of membership, it’s imperative that we do the due diligence to help you make the most informed decision.
Through countless hours of testing over several years looking at over 50 data points, our most recent results give Three Day Rule an overall success metric of 9.42.
For deeper insight, here is a look at some of the test results from some of the more impactful categories.
6-Point Safety and Security Checklist Results
The single most important factor in our matchmaking review process (at 25% of the total success metric) is safety and security. To determine our ranking, our team tests each matchmaking service against our 6-point safety and security checklist.
Here are the results for Three Day Rule.
| Test Category | Results | Weight | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Discretion | 9.8 | 20% | Three Day Rule demonstrates a commitment to discretion through all practices. |
| Match Vetting | 8.4 | 20% | Matches are personally interviewed (great), but background checks aren’t conducted (unless necessary) |
| Non Negotiables | 10.0 | 20% | One of the only professional matchmakers that honors non-negotiables |
| Privacy Policy Protections | 9.5 | 15% | Industry standard, no issues |
| Matchmaker Conduct | 9.8 | 15% | Reviews and reports of matchmaker conduct are always positive, praising, and exceptional |
| Third-Party Data Usage | 9.8 | 10% | No known improper uses of data with third-parties |
| Overall | 9.52 |
Popularity and Network Analysis and Testing
Compared with dating apps, you should expect much lower traffic and popularity metrics in comparison when looking at matchmaking companies. While our testing revealed that Three Day Rule is certainly not the largest matchmaker, we see an extensive network of 200k+ singles and indicators through press coverage and Google Trends of growth.
Here are some, but not all, of the data points used in our testing,
| Data Point | Value | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Monthly Traffic (Web) | 33,041 | SimilarWeb |
| Branded Search Volume (Monthly) | 4,400 | Ahrefs |
| Followers – Facebook | 17,700 | |
| Followers – Instagram | 30,500 | |
| News Coverage | Extensive | Multiple Sources |
| Search Trend | Upward (positive) | Google Trends |
In regards to the upward trend, here is a screenshot of that trend from Google Trends for branded searches.

A lot of the popularity growth may be as a result of an extensive lists of raving fans and success stories.
Three Day Rule Process Evaluation Testing
The key to a successful matchmaker, especially at scale, is a systematic process that delivers results. Here are our testing results for process evaluation for Three Day Rule.
| Test Category | Results | Weight |
|---|---|---|
| Systematic Process | 9.8 | 25% |
| Process Quality | 9.9 | 20% |
| Track Record (Results) | 9.7 | 20% |
| Attention to Detail | 10.0 | 20% |
| Flexibility | 9.7 | 15% |
| Overall | 9.83 |
How Three Day Rule Works for It’s Members
The overarching matchmaking process at Three Day Rule is much like what you’d expect to see at any similar service, but the real differentiation happens in the details.
Here’s how it works. When you sign up with TDR, the company pairs you with a matchmaker who gets to know everything about you. Where other companies stop at a phone call, TDR goes a step further to have you do things like send in pictures of people you find attractive, so they can really dial in on the emotional and physical preferences you have.
Once your matchmaker has a good handle on this, they begin searching the company’s database of singles, personal network, and even going as far as to “chase someone down the street” if they think they’re a good match.
Here’s what Talia Goldstein, the President of Three Day Rule, said about this during our recent interview:
…the number one way that we find matches is actually through referrals. So typically what’s happening is we match a couple successfully. They tell their friends about us, we match them, they share with their friends. So we have hundreds of thousands of people in our network that came through word of mouth, but we don’t even limit the matching to that group. We search outside of the network as well. So we have a team of 50 full-time matchmakers across the country. When they go to yoga class, when they’re out at parties, we’re recruiting people. And then we have a team of recruiters that will search on LinkedIn or Instagram, they’ll watch TED Talks, sky’s the limit. We’re going to find you or hopefully we will find you your perfect person. And so we don’t want to limit it to one group. So your match might be another client. Your match might be in the network or someone that we find for you outside of the network.
When they find a match for you, they’ll show you their picture and help you set up a date. If the date goes well, awesome! If not, they’ll gather feedback from both you and your date to help in curating an even better match the next time around.
In the next section, we’ll look a little deeper at some of these features and a few areas where the company differentiates itself from the competition.
Actual Client Testimonials
You could take our word for it as we’ve reviewed hundreds of dating apps and professional matchmakers over the years. But, a thorough review of Three Day Rule would not be complete without some actual client testimonials. Here is every one that our team could find.
“In December of 2022 our lives took a beautiful turn and we owe it all to Lindsay. Navigating the dating landscape can be fun but also incredibly challenging; the game changer for us was having someone like Lindsay guiding us with her wisdom and heart. Lindsay is an empathic listener, and has the kind of intuition that truly sets her apart when it comes to matching people. When Lindsay orchestrated our first meeting, we could tell that she had really taken the time to know us in a way where this wasn’t just another date— but there was hope, something new and meaningful about meeting each other. Since then we have fallen in love and have been inseparable. It was like coming home to your best friend. Watching our connection grow has been truly humbling for us. No one can guarantee anything in the matters of the heart, but you should always take that chance, and if you’re lucky enough to have someone like Lindsay as your co-pilot— the journey can be a wondrous one.“
Griselle, 43 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I used a different matchmaking company before signing up with TDR and I can tell you they are not all the same. I had some concerns early on that were taken care of very quickly and professionally. If you are going to use a service I would highly recommend using TDR. I had Kelly as my matchmaker and she was absolutely amazing to deal with. She listened to exactly what I was looking for in a partner and set me up with some great women.”
Rob Adle (Source: Trust Pilot)
“I did Three Day Rule back in 2017, and it was very useful! I was in my late 30s, had gotten through a divorce a few years earlier, and I just wasn’t having success on the apps. I am busy between work, friends, and activities, and I felt like I just didn’t have the energy to dedicate to the apps to find quality dates.
My first match was a good guy – definitely someone I would have gone on a second date with if I met him on the apps. We had a good connection, but I still wanted to meet another match. My second match ended up being wonderful, and we’ve now been married for almost 6 years!”
User: aspencer27 (Source: Reddit)
“I really enjoyed working with Talia, and the Three Day Rule team. I was impressed with the efforts Talia and her team made to get to know me and how hands-on they were from the start. I met people who I felt had my same level of drive, ambition, and passion, which can be really hard to discern on apps. I learned so much about myself in my time working with them and was really impressed with how thoughtful the process was. I’m happy to say that I think, thanks to Talia and Three Day Rule, I’ve gone on my last first date ever.”
Callie, 29 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I had a fantastic experience. I had been dating online for several years and the last three serious relationships I was involved in were a result of online dating. I’ve had fun with the process, but I found that it really takes a ton of dates and work to find someone worth dating. Still, what I came to realize is that, in order for me to really go the distance with someone, I needed someone truly spectacular. Enter Three Day Rule… When I met my Matchmaker she was incredibly warm and did a great job of extracting the right information from me in order to find not just the type of person I was asking for but the one I really needed. I could see that she was really assessing things on another level. I don’t think it always works this way, but all it took was one match for me to get everything I could ever ask for and more (sniff sniff, single tear). Really grateful to the Three Day Rule team in Philly! I was hesitant about taking the plunge, but grateful I jumped in!”
Art, 36 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“Three Day Rule truly stands apart in the matchmaking world. What made the experience special was how deeply they focused on me—my values, my personality, and my long-term relationship goals—rather than pushing a high volume of dates. They listened carefully, asked thoughtful questions, and were incredibly intentional with every match. It felt personal, human, and genuinely well considered. Thanks to their care and attention to detail, they connected me with my wife. I can honestly say their approach works because they prioritize quality, understanding, and real connection over numbers.”
Sergio Camacho (Source: Trust Pilot)
“I never thought I’d meet my husband through my third match… but that’s exactly what happened! After five years of dating in NYC, I was completely burnt out. The dating apps felt like a part-time job—endless swiping, mismatched expectations, and conversations that fizzled out. I wanted something different, so in August of 2023 I took the leap and joined Three Day Rule. I’ll be honest—I was hesitant at first. My first couple of matches weren’t quite right, but my matchmaker really listened, made adjustments, and by my third match, I met the man who is now my husband. We just got married! Like anything worthwhile, it takes commitment—your own focus and effort—as well as a monetary investment. But if you can do it and you’re tired of the same dating cycle, I’d absolutely encourage you to try something new. You never know… a year and a half from now, you might be saying the same thing I am: “I took a chance—and it changed my life.”
Greta, 36 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“Coach Extraordinaire!!!! I can’t recommend this dating coach highly enough: Anastacia is a gem! She is deeply caring , thoughtful and genuinely invested in my growth and happiness. Her guidance is always practical and grounded. Whether she gives me a book to read, suggests journaling or simply validates how I feel, she is consistent. I always feel understood and she helps me refine clarity and gain confidence. Anastacia has fabulous communication skills both in person and via email. She is responsive and both empowering and reassuring. I purchased additional sessions because she is an amazing support and I feel like she is integral to my success! I am very grateful.”
Kathryn Block (Source: Trust Pilot)
“I signed up with Three Day Rule with some hesitation. Like many people, my life does not necessarily lend itself to meeting new people — I work (a lot!), most of my friends are in long-term relationships or married, and I am just too old to hit the bars. But, I was interested in finding a new relationship. A Matchmaker sounded like just the ticket. My first match looked like an odd fit based on my past relationships, but I swore I would be open-minded about doing this, so I agreed to meet Evan. After the first date, I thought he found me uninteresting. But, since I enjoyed meeting him, I said I would see him again if he wanted to. My Matchmaker got feedback (invaluable to us meeting again), and Evan said he would like to so we went on date two. The next time went better. And, every time since kept getting better! Now we are married. So, my Matchmaker was right and we were wrong about whether we made a good match-we do!”
Marie, 50 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“She has not only made the process significantly easier but has genuinely made this a fun and enjoyable journey that I look forward to. She possesses an acute understanding of listening to the client and discerning their true desires. She is remarkably supportive and insightful, displaying a clear understanding of my own personal limitations and various aspects of my life that influence my compatibility and dating approach.”
M.S., 73 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I wanted to sincerely thank everyone at Three Day Rule for all the time and effort in introducing me to Rebecca. Just a few months ago, we got married!! And we couldn’t be happier. With a busy career, I had frequently found it challenging to find adequate time for dating – even though finding a partner and starting a family was a top priority for me. So I appreciated Three Day Rule doing the groundwork for me! And for introducing me to such a wonderful person. Thank you so much. Very best wishes!”
Brian, 46 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I worked with Three Day Rule twice, and I’m so grateful I did. The first round didn’t lead me to my person, but it did help me learn a lot about myself, what I truly wanted, and how I showed up in dating. That experience alone was worth it. I decided to go out on a limb and try again—and the second time, I met my now husband. The process felt thoughtful, intentional, and human, not transactional. I’m living proof that sometimes the first round is about growth, and the second is about finding the right match. I can’t recommend Three Day Rule enough for anyone serious about finding a real, lasting relationship.”
Andrea Martin (Source: Trust Pilot)
“I went into Three day rule without any expectations. I had always been very skeptical of matchmakers but when my friend told me her brother met his fiancé through the service, I decided to try it. I had nothing to lose and if anything I would take it as a way to learn more about myself in the dating world. I was assigned to Elisa as my matchmaking coach and I could not have been happier. I felt she really listened to what kind of partner I was looking for but also helped me hone in on what was most important. Seven months later, I am engaged to my first match and my first date and I could not be happier! I am over the moon in love with my fiancé and I owe it all to Elisa. She found me my perfect match who has every quality I was looking for in a partner and more. I am eternally grateful for Elisa and Three day rule in helping me achieve what I never thought was possible for me and that was to find the love of my life.”
Maria, 42 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“Three Day Rule changed my life! My matchmaker Makaela truly understood what I was looking for and introduced me to the most incredible man who is now my husband and life partner. The entire experience was seamless, personalized, and filled with genuine care. I couldn’t be happier and am forever grateful to Three Day Rule for helping me find the love of my life!”
Sam, 36 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I’ve had a great experience working with Three Day Rule, specifically with Kristen Stewart. She wasn’t just a matchmaker, she was like a hype woman, consultant, and advisor all rolled into one. Kristen really took the time to get to know me, not just on the surface level, but in a way that helped me understand who I might actually be compatible with. That alone boosted my enthusiasm to put myself out there.
That said, I think it’s important to be clear about what TDR is and isn’t. They’re not selling you a date. They’re providing a service that takes time, effort, and real care: being your advocate, your sounding board, your networker, and your guide in the dating process. It’s kind of like working with a personal trainer: you still have to do the work, but having someone in your corner makes a big difference. At a minimum, you walk away with insights, confidence, and the feeling that you’re not navigating it all alone.
It’s also true that this service is at a price point that’s not for everyone, and it’s not a silver bullet that guarantees you’ll fall in love. But if it’s within your budget, it can save you a lot of time and give you a really valuable experience with people who genuinely care. Like anything else, you get out what you put in.”
User: Technical-Point-2164 (Source: Reddit)
“Talia and the team at Three Day Rule have changed dating for me in LA. I was a working professional in my 30s, who was ready for a serious relationship. Every guy I’d meet on my own either didn’t have his stuff together professionally or hadn’t had many serious relationships prior. I’d constantly hear from those in my life, “HOW ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?” I’d then ask if they knew anyone with whom they could set me up, and the response was always something along the lines of, “Every guy I know is either taken, or there’s a reason he’s still single.” I’d smile, and say, “That’s why I’m still single.” While I know that question was meant as a compliment, it got very frustrating hearing it over and over again. The dating apps were very time-consuming, and I got turned off to those very quickly after seeing multiple guys sharing topless selfies or photos with tigers. Then I signed up with Three Day Rule… I figured people use headhunters to find quality jobs, why couldn’t I use one to help find quality dates? Talia really took the time to get to know me, and even set me up with someone I ended up dating for 7 months. When that didn’t work out, I was devastated, but Talia stayed in touch and helped me stay hopeful that Mr. Right was still out there. The facts remained that my contract was up, I had spent all this money, and yet I was still alone, which was really tough to swallow at times. Talia and I would touch base throughout the year, and she assured me that she was always looking out for me, and she would let me know if she had a bonus match for me. Then the pandemic hit, and I figured, how can I possibly meet someone now? Much to my pleasant surprise, Talia told me she had someone in mind for me. He and I chatted on the phone, then did some virtual dating, and then we met in person…and we just fit. Now we are engaged! I feel so incredibly grateful to Talia and her team for helping me find happiness, especially during an extremely tough year.”
Jana, 46 (Source: Three Day Rule)
“I am a success story of the 3 day rule!!!! I would have been willing to pay a lot more for the service knowing what I know now. I’m now married and have a little 9 month old at home. I could not be happier.
When I was in my mid 30’s I told myself that if I was not married or in a committed relationship that was headed to marriage by 40, I would hire a matchmaker. On my 40th birthday I called the 3 day rule and it was the best birthday gift I could have given myself. I was hesitant for the same reason OP posted this thread. But, I knew it was something I would regret not doing If I didn’t and wasn’t married soon.
I read a lot of the comments and felt I needed to share my story. I could not put together what they did for me myself putting together other services. Yes, some things could have been but, not the matchmaker. They set me up with a stylist to pick out first date outfits. They also, hired a photographer that specialized in dating profile pictures. Both of which I was very happy with. But, the matchmaker was worth her weight in gold. Had I met my wife on an app or organically without the matchmaker, I don’t think I would be married today. The guidance was AMAZING. I could not get similar help from a psychologist or any other professional. There were so many things that I loved about the matchmaker. After dates, she would talk to my date to see what went well and what went bad. She gave me the feedback. It was incredible.”
User: Puzzleheaded-Cup-854 (Source: Reddit)
“Three Day Rule offered a genuinely personalized dating experience. My matchmaker took time to understand my preferences, checked in regularly, and used my feedback to refine each introduction. The matches provided were really spot on and felt intentional and higher quality than what I found on dating apps.
It’s not cheap, but the thoughtful communication, curated matches, and supportive coaching made it a worthwhile investment. I’d recommend it to anyone looking for a more human and tailored approach to dating.”
Nick Ghatak (Source: Trust Pilot)

The 5 Most Important Features
While the full list of features offered by Three Day Rule is extensive, I wanted to take a minute to highlight a few of the more prominent and impactful ones.
1. Getting to See Pictures Before a Date
What you may not know is that most matchmaking services won’t show you pictures of your matches before you go on a date with them. Why? Well, to be honest, we’re really not sure. But nonetheless, Three Day Rule does actually show you pictures of your matches before the date, and vice versa. I think if you’re paying a higher price tag, you really shouldn’t have to operate in the dark, so we’re fans of this feature.
2. Strict Adherence to Your Non-Negotiables
Many of the other matchmaking services have a long list of negative reviews saying that their matchmaker sent them matches that didn’t fit what they wanted. Thankfully, TDR takes time to identify your six most important non-negotiables and guarantees your matches will fit within those guidelines.
3. Professional Photographer Session
This is pretty neat. Since they’re going to be showing your photos to matches, wouldn’t it be cool to have lifestyle photos that show off you? Well, Three Day Rule includes this with every package. What’s also cool is that you get to keep the photos, so if you want to use them on dating apps as well, you can.
4. Professional Dating Coaching
We can all use a little extra help and guidance from time to time. Each Three Day Rule membership comes with a few sessions with a professional dating coach where you can talk about things like your attachment style, flirting technique, etc. It’s a perk we haven’t seen anywhere before, and we’re big fans.
5. Ability to Trade in Remaining Matches if You Meet Someone
What happens if you hit it off with one of your matches? First, yay! That’s the entire goal of this. What we found during our Three Day Rule review is the company will allow you to trade in the remaining time on your membership for relationship coaching sessions. This means your leftover time won’t go to waste, but will be used to help increase your chances of success with the person you’re hitting it off with.
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Three Day Rule Pricing – Standard and VIP
As I already alluded to, hiring a personal one-on-one matchmaker is going to cost more than a traditional dating app. If this surprises you, take a moment and think about it—it really shouldn’t.
So, how much does Three Day Rule cost? Well, the company offers two main memberships.
At Three Day Rule (3DR), there are two main membership options you can purchase. The first is a 3-month membership that guarantees a minimum of at least 3 dates. The cost of this 3DR membership is $5,900 total. The second option is a 6-month membership that guarantees a minimum of at least 6 dates. The cost of this longer membership is $9,500 total.
Here’s what you get with each package:
| Feature | 3-Month Membership | 6-Month Membership |
|---|---|---|
| Guaranteed Dates | At least 3 | At least 6 |
| Non-Negotiables | Yes | Yes |
| Professional Photography Session | Yes | Yes |
| Professional Dating Coaching | Yes | Yes |
| Convert Unused Time? | Yes | Yes |
One neat thing to point out here is that the number of dates truly is just a minimum. If Three Day Rule finds more amazing people during your time as a member, you’ll get additional dates/matches at no additional cost.
Payment is due all upfront, and there are no refunds offered. This is quite standard amongst almost every matchmaking service, but we wanted to make sure to include it just in case you weren’t aware.
VIP Upgrades at Three Day Rule
One additional thing to note that you won’t see published publicly—Three Day Rule does offer some higher level VIP packages for anyone looking for an even higher level of service. If that’s something you might be interested in, make sure you ask about it when you schedule your free consultation call from the links on this page.
Are There Add-Ons Available for Three Day Rule Memberships?
One great thing about purchasing a Three Day Rule membership is that all features are included. Whether you select the 3-month or 6-month membership, you get access to everything.
What is Three Day Rule’s Refund Policy?
Due to the nature of Three Day Rule’s service, there is a strict no-refund policy. Much like the need to make full payment upfront, this is 100% standard across the entire matchmaking industry. The only guarantee you’re given is that you will get at least your allotted number of matches and that they fit within your non-negotiable criteria. If you don’t hit it off with someone, that’s not grounds for a refund.
Did I see 3DR on Shark Tank? Yes!
Three Day Rule is a professional matchmaking service founded in 2010 by Talia Goldstein and Val Brennan. Since its inception, the company has been showcased on many major publications, but is most famous for being featured on Season 4 of the ABC investment show Shark Tank. The image below is of Val Brennan, one of the original founders of the company looking for a 10% investment from one of the Sharks for $200,000.

While none of the sharks chose to invest that day, many singles across the country are choosing to invest in Three Day Rule. Currently, the company’s network of singles is over 200,000 and growing thanks to a lot of press coverage in major publications like The Wall Street Journal, NPR, Los Angeles Times, and more.

Three Day Rule originally launched in Los Angeles. From there, they expanded into San Francisco and eventually expanded to a current total of 11 major cities with plans to expand further in the near future.
The Final Word on Three Day Rule
Here’s the Three Day Rule review in a nutshell. If you can afford the higher price tag, live in one of the cities they service (or are open to travel), and are ready to make a real investment in your search for love, Three Day Rule is a fantastic option.
If your budget is tight, you don’t live close to one of their serviced cities, and you’re not quite ready for this level of commitment, it’s probably not the right option for you.
How I Arrived at My Review Conclusions
For a bit of transparency, I want to share real quickly how I arrived at these conclusions. First, I wanted to go to the source. I was able to set up and conduct an interview with Talia Goldstein, the founder and president of Three Day Rule. I think it’s far too easy to just trust what you read on a company’s website, but I wanted to go further and hear it directly from the source. I’ll share a lot of what Talia had to say later in this review.
After I verified the information I needed from Three Day Rule, I began testing out the components of the app I could (that I was given access to), started researching and reaching out to past clients who had posted publicly about their experiences, and began to compare how all of this stacked up against the other options available to singles. Matchmaking reviews are always a different beast because “individual experiences may vary” is probably the understatement of the year. That said, after compiling all of my testing, interviews, and research—I think I was able to get a really complete picture of Three Day Rule that I’m excited to continue sharing with you in this review.
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