Epic Guide to Speed Dating in LA

Did you know that LA has a higher percentage of single adults than NYC does? Even so, an available partner won’t just fall into your lap. You have to make things happen if you’re going to meet someone special, which might mean attending a speed dating event.

Yep, we just said “speed dating in LA.”

We know speed dating sounds so 2005, but there’s been a second coming in Los Angeles lately. Find out all about the city’s speed dating scene, from the best companies and events to the quality of the singles. We cover it all, starting with our favorite events.

How to Book an LA Speed Dating Event 

Organizers post speed dating events on Meetup, Eventbrite, and other websites, but be careful about booking the first one you see. Most of those events are hosted by MyCheekyDate. The company sometimes uses other names, such as SpeedLA Dating, but these events are cheeky through and through.

We aren’t hating on MyCheekyDate in general. The national company is the go-to choice in some cities, but not LA. Its LA events have earned a mere 2-star rating on Yelp, so we’re going with a hard pass.

We did our homework and found the speed dating companies that provide the best events in LA. Check out what we found – and find out how to grab a spot.

Catch Matchmaking speed dating homepage

As a local company, Catch Matchmaking puts a personalized touch on its speed dating events.

Plus, it manages to attract high-quality men and women. You can expect a professional crowd and an attentive host if you attend one. And a lot of the attendees are extremely attractive, so you won’t feel like cutting and running after walking through the door.

The locations are nice as well, but it’s worth mentioning the in-person events aren’t held in LA. Instead, you’ll have to travel to Marina del Rey or Culver City to attend one. However, the company has temporarily paused its in-person events in favor of online options, so you can go on dates without the drive if you want.

Catch Matchmaking usually hosts fun events, such as speed dating for Western men and Asian women. We’ve noticed that events for specific groups do better in LA than age-based speed dating, so these gatherings are a hit.

If you’re interested in meeting high-quality singles, head to Catch Matchmaking’s website and subscribe. Then, you’ll receive the details about virtual speed dating events.

  • Yelp Rating – 4-stars (100+ reviews)as
  • Event Frequency – Not a set schedule
  • Number of Dates – 10-15

Best Virtual-Only Speed Dating in Los Angeles

If you’re too busy to attend in-person events, you can participate in virtual speed dating. LA has some cool options, but two stand out.

  • The Fun Singles – With a 5-star rating on Google, The Fun Singles is a great option for virtual speed dating. It offers several events each week and specializes in speed dating for single professionals. You can grab a ticket to an event on The Fun Singles’ website.
  • League Live – You can access this event through The League dating app or Meetup. Either way, the company will select three people for you to connect with virtually, and you’ll talk to each one for a couple of minutes. Get started by joining League Live’s Meetup. Then, you can participate each Sunday.

Frequency of Speed Dating Events in LA

Sometimes there will be several speed dating events in LA weekly, but most of them aren’t worth your time. Remember what we said about MyCheekyDate? Yep, that’s why there are so many events available. It keeps the schedule full, while the best companies generally offer one or two events each week or month.

What is Speed Dating Like in Los Angeles?

You know how to book a speed dating event now, but what will it be like? We reviewed LA’s speed dating scene, and we’re ready to share our findings with you. Get the details on what it’s like to attend an event in Los Angeles.

Los Angeles Speed Dating Can Get Aggressive

We’ve heard that some LA singles don’t play by the speed dating rules. Instead of waiting to find out if they get matches, singles often try to snag phone numbers during the short dates. They don’t want to take no for an answer, so it can be uncomfortable.

Age-Based Speed Dating Doesn’t Work

While speed dating events based on age are OK in some cities, they attract too wide of a demographic in LA. You’ll find everyone from professionals to unemployed guys and gals there, and their interests are all over the map. Singles report that these broad events don’t lead to many, if any, matches.

It’s Not for the Younger Crowd

Guys and gals in their 20s don’t appear to be interested in speed dating in LA. Instead, these events are geared toward people who are 30 and up. League Live is the exception, though. It manages to attract singles who are in their late 20s.

People Drop Out

Apparently, LA singles scope their options, and if they don’t like what they see, they head home before the event starts. That means you might end up at an event with just a few people instead of dozens like you were promised.

The Bottom Line: Is Speed Dating a Good Option in LA?

The top speed dating companies offer some fun events that can lead to real connections. They don’t hold events often, though, and we don’t recommend going to one of the duds.

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Author: Matt Seymour, MSF

Matthew J. Seymour is a dating industry expert with over a decade of experience coaching singles, reviewing dating apps, and analyzing trends within the industry. Matt is a published author with his most recent work “Get More Dates: How to Master Online Dating Apps” that hit shelves in 2023. With a Masters of Science in Finance (MSF) degree from the University of Florida and extensive knowledge of the innerworkings of the online dating industry, Matt frequently serves in an advisory role to some of the largest dating apps on the market. In Matt’s current role with Healthy Framework, he leads the interview team that regularly interviews key dating industry leaders, and leverages his financial knowledge and dating app experience to review and share what singles need to know to get the most out of dating online.