Hily Review

The online dating scene has been switching things up lately, and one of the newer additions to the team is Hily. 

An app with a social-media feel and in-depth verification standards, Hily is quickly making its way to the top spot in the lifestyle section of both the Apple App Store and Google Play. 

But here’s the real question—is Hily getting attention because it is good or because it is new? To answer this, we turned on our headlamps and went exploring. And the results of that exploration are published below in our Hily review.

If you want to learn about Hily’s cost, features, and overall usability, just read on!

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Hily- The Bottom Line Up Front

Hily is a pretty nice dating app, especially if you are tired of wasting time on fake accounts, jerks that send illicit messages, or casual dating apps that focus too much on looks. Hily adds a little substance to the idea of online dating. 

The app still feels casual, but it doesn’t feel dirty, which we love. 

The paid membership is quite a bit pricier than a lot of other dating apps, which isn’t ideal. It’s also important to point out that Hily has a 1-week trial where you can try all the premium features for free, but it does convert to paid on you.

What we recommend is giving Hily a try, but also checking out a few other top dating apps to compare to. That way, you can find the best fit. We’ve included some great options with free trials below. Try as many as you’d like!

Best Hily Alternatives (With Free Trials)

RankSiteFree Trial Link 
#1ZooskFree Trial
#2eHarmonyFree Trial
#3Higher BondFree Trial
#4JdateFree Trial
#5Christian MingleFree Trial

Overall Hily Rating

Quality Matches8.0/10.0
Ease of Use8.5/10.0


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Pros and Cons of the Hily Dating App


  • The app has a social media feel to it which makes it easier to communicate.
  • The verification process prevents scammers and bots on the app. 
  • The Auto-blocker protects users from rude and crude messages.


  • Chat requests aren’t reserved for mutual matches, so randos can and will chat request you.
  • Many of the best features are reserved for premium members only.

Who Hily Is Good For

  • Younger singles (most users are under 40) who want to experience the most modern form of online dating. 
  • Singles that want to avoid fake accounts. 
  • Anyone who wants a dating app that allows for better connections and more communication.

Who Hily Might Not Be Best For

  • Older singles or those who are less tech-savvy.
  • Those who want to avoid messages from non-matches.

Hily Review – Table of Contents

Fast Facts About Hily

  • Site Name: Hily.com
  • Paid or Free: Free site with paid membership perks
  • Average Sign-Up Time: ~ 7 minutes
  • Paid Membership Pricing: Plans starting as low as $29.99 per month
  • Unique Hily Facts and Figures
    • Hily was released in 2017 and already has over 6 million users.
    • The Hily App has been downloaded over 10 million times on Google Play. 
    • Hily was launched in 2017 and consistently scores in the top 10 dating app downloads each year.
    • 4.5 star rating and over 115,000 reviews on Google Play
    • 4.3 star rating and over 120,000 reviews on the Apple App Store

Hily Features Overview

Hily has so many features that we don’t even have room to discuss them all! Even free users can fully use the app and try out features ranging from basic (messaging and filtering searches) to advanced (protection offered by the risk algorithm, events, and more). 

Once you get into Hily Elixir (Hily’s premium version) territory, the features get even cooler! Here are a few of our favorite paid features:

Consumable Features

Consumable features refers to items like boosts, no match chat requests, and rollbacks. These are features that are used up upon use and refresh each month. Here’s a quick look at the three main consumable features:

  • Boost – Puts your profile at the top of other peoples’ potential match list. 
  • No Match Chat Requests – Lets you submit a chat request to users you haven’t mutually matched with. 
  • Rollbacks – Accidentally pass over a person you meant to like? Rollbacks let you go undo those mistakes!

Visitors List

Want to know who has liked or visited your profile? One cool premium feature, visitors list, allows you to see exactly who’s been scoping you out! Free members can technically see this too, but they can’t visit the profile or see the picture thanks to some dramatic filtering. Hily Elixir members can see the photos of these visitors and travel to their profiles. 

Zero Ads 

The removal of ads might be the best reason to pay for the premium version of any app, to be honest. While most dating websites can be made adfree through a good ad blocker, mobile apps aren’t quite that simple. So, if you hate dealing with annoying popup ads, Hily Elixir may be a good choice for you. 

The Quality of Singles at Hily

We are thoroughly impressed with the selection of singles at Hily! The app has a really great way of preventing fake accounts and abusive individuals. First, they make a point to auto-filter accounts that come across as fake and utilize profile photos to confirm identities. 

Additionally, there is an internal ranking of community members that lowers each time a person commits an infraction (gets blocked, is reported for misconduct, sends messages that get auto filtered, etc.). If a person’s score gets too low they become shadow-banned and their matches can’t reach out to them any further. 

The apps ability to pre-emptively block crude, hateful messages is super impressive and should be a standard across the board for dating and social media sites.

How to Sign Up at Hily

Signing up at Hily is super fast and straightforward. First, just head to the app store for your device and download the app. Then, follow these steps:

  1. Choose to sign in with Snapchat, Facebook, or your email. (we recommend your email).
  2. Provide your basic information like your name and birthdate. 
  3. Read the location permission statement and allow the app to find your location. 
  4. Upload at least one profile photo with a clear shot of your face. 
  5. Take a quick, click-through personality test to help the app get a feel for your dating needs. 
  6. You’re all set!

Price | How Much Does Hily Cost?

So, Hily veeeerrrry heavily pushes their 1-week free trial. Like, you have to be paying attention to know you can exit out the first time they ask. Then they IMMEDIATELY ask again and this page is even more misleading. There is a button that says continue and one that says “begin 1 week trial” if you choose continue it continues you to signing up for the 1 week free trial. Instead, you have to use the back arrow at the top of the screen.

Membership TypePrice
Weekly$7.99 weekly
Monthly$29.99 monthly
Lifetime$199.99 one-time

Customer Support Options

Customer support is another area where Hily takes a new, better approach. If you’ve read any of our other reviews, you know how much we hate it when an app will take your money, but when a problem arises they don’t offer any way to speak to an actual person. 

Hily is different. While the majority of customer support needs can be met through their FAQs and support page, they do have an email and a phone number for further questions. The best part, it isn’t hidden somewhere deep in their website. Just click “contact us” and all the info is at your fingertips!

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Can I Message Matches with Hily’s Free Membership?

Yes! Free Hily members can message request any of their matches. The perk to a premium membership is being able to message singles you haven’t matched with. 

Is Hily Meant for Hookups or Long-term Romance?

Hily has a large focus on compatibility over looks, which makes it optimal for creating long-term connections. Most polled users say they are looking for love, but a smaller number of users do use Hily for casual dating and hookups. 

How Does Hily Know My Matches Are Compatible With Me?

When you sign up for Hily you will complete a personality test that is the base for matching you with other users. When you find a single you are interested in, you can look at your compatibility score. This shows the percentage of compatibility and which questions you answered the same way. 

I Have Been Ghost-Banned on Hily. What Do I Do?

If you think that you have been banned on Hily, you can reach out to customer service for further information regarding your ban and whether or not your account can be restored back to full access. 

How Do I Cancel my Hily Elixir Membership?

Your subscription isn’t held and monitored through Hily, which can make canceling a bit of a hassle. The steps for canceling depend on whether you are on an Android or Apple device. The steps are as follows:

Canceling Through Apple Pay

  1. On your device, tap your name.
  2. Tap “subscriptions.”
  3. Find the Hily app in the list.
  4. Tap “cancel subscription.”

Canceling Through Google Pay

  1. Go to the Google Play store and ensure you are signed into the appropriate account. 
  2. Tap “menu,” and select “subscriptions.”
  3. Find the Hily app in the list of subscriptions.
  4. Tap “cancel subscription.”
  5. Confirm as directed.