Understanding Read Receipts in Online Dating


Did they read your message? Are they just busy or are they ignoring you? These are the questions that plague us when we send out a message to someone we like in online dating. We always want to know where we stand and if we should move on or send another message. Thankfully, a lot of online dating sites heard our call and released a feature called read receipts.


What are online dating read receipts?

Read receipts is a term for technology created by online dating sites to allow users to know whether or not their message sent to another single has been read, is still unread, or has been deleted. The technology is not available at all dating sites and is usually a feature that comes as an upgrade. When being used, the sender can check their online dating inbox to see the status of all of their messages. If the message has been read or deleted, it will show a timestamp with the date and time of exactly when the message was read or deleted.

How do I get read receipts?

Read receipts are not going to be available everywhere and are only offered by some dating sites. We do expect that in the future more sites will be offering this functionality, but for now, it is available at about half of the sites out there. In order to get access to read receipts, you’re usually going to have to purchase them as an add-on, or they’ll come with one of the plans.

If you’re not sure if your plan has read receipts, contact customer service and ask them. See if they have them and then also see if they can tell you what you need to do in order to get them activated on your account. If you haven’t joined an online dating site yet and want to see if they have read receipts, check out our online dating site reviews where we break down all of the features available.

Can I block someone from seeing when I read something?

Unfortunately, if you’re on a dating site with read receipts, you can’t hide from the functionality. If you do read a message from someone or delete it and they have read receipts, they will be able to see that you did this and when you did it. If you really don’t want someone to know that you read or deleted or even saw a message they sent, you’ll just have to leave it in your inbox and not open it. We’re not really sure why this would be the case (maybe if an ex is messaging you), but that’s the only workaround available.

Are online dating read receipts worth the extra cost?

Out of all the features available in online dating, we think this is the best one for those of you that want peace of mind. In reality, you should be able to send off messages and then not worry about whether they are read or not, but we are all human. If we see someone online that we really like, we want to know if they’ve read our message or not. Without read receipts, you’re kind of left guessing as to whether your message was received or received and deleted.

In our opinion, read receipts in online dating are totally worth especially because they’re usually only a few bucks more as an add-on or an upgraded membership. If you truly don’t ever worry whether your message was received or not after you sent it, then there’s no need to get read receipts. But, if you want to know where you stand and whether you should send a second message or not, you might want to look into getting this feature for your online dating account.

Are online dating read receipts always accurate?

This is a question that we get a lot, and we’d like to give you the best answer that we can. As far as we know, read receipts are 100% accurate because they are done through an automatic process. As soon as the message is read or deleted, a note is made in the system. When you log into your online dating account to see the status of your message, it grabs that time and date directly from that note in the system. It’s not a process that is handled by humans where there is a chance for human error.

That being said, we can’t see their processes so we can’t tell you they are 100% accurate without a shadow of a doubt. But, for all intents and purposes, they are 100% accurate, and you should have no reason to ever suspect that the information you are getting from online dating read receipts is incorrect.

We can say that there are zero ways for an individual to manipulate the read receipts and read your message without you know or delete your message without you knowing.

Read: Best U.S. Dating Sites by State

Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

What is the Match.com guarantee? (How to get it)

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We LOVE guarantees! We especially LOVE guarantees in the online dating world. You usually only see them from online dating sites that actually care about their customers and believe in their product. One of those companies that we want to explore today is Match.com. Specifically, we’re going to be looking at the Match.com 6-month guarantee.

We’ll break down exactly what the Match.com guarantee is, what it can do for you, any special things you need to know, and most importantly how you can take advantage of it today.

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What is the Match.com guarantee?

So, what is this thing? The Match.com guarantee is a promise that if you are not able to find someone special within your first 6 months as a member, they will give you an additional 6-month membership completely free. This guarantee used to be known as the Make Love Happen Guarantee but has been renamed the I Met Someone Guarantee.

From our research, the Match.com guarantee is pretty straightforward and easy to get if you struggle to find that special someone. Ideally, this is a guarantee that you won’t have to take advantage of, but it’s really nice to know that you’re not going to be shelling out more money after 6 months if you haven’t found that perfect person. This can take a lot of financial and emotional pressure off of you making the online dating experience with Match.com that much more enjoyable.

The Expectations of You

Now, there are some expectations of you to be able to get the Match.com guarantee. Thankfully, it’s nothing crazy or that requires a lot of work. All they want to do is make sure that during your first 6 months you are actively trying to meet someone and you’re doing everything you can to allow their service to do what it is set up to do.

Let’s take a look at the major expectations of you.

Create a Truthful Match.com Profile

The first thing that you have to do is create an actual real profile. What does this mean specifically? Well, first you need to have a photo on your profile, and it needs to be visible at all times. Match.com does give you the ability to hide your profile at times, but you can’t do this during the first 6 months if you want to take advantage of this guarantee. You also need to do this within the first 7 days of your subscription or else you will not be able to take advantage of the program. We repeat, you have to load up your profile photo and get it approved by Match.com in your first week of paid membership.

Surprisingly, that is all that they mention you have to do. Now, we would advise you to go ahead and fill out an awesome profile (our guide on writing the perfect dating profile will help) because your goal here is not to get to use the free extension, but it’s to find someone special, so you don’t have to take advantage of the Match.com guarantee.

Communicate with Members

You can’t just put up a profile on Match.com and not do anything else and expect magic to happen. You’re not going to find anyone special unless you get yourself into the mix of things. Specifically, Match.com wants you to communicate with at least 5 brand new people every single month.

What does this entail? All you have to do is send an email or respond to an email from 5 new people every month. You do not have to go out with them or carry on a crazy long conversation. You just have to send them an email or respond to an email from them. Do keep in mind that this is 5 new people every month, so if you’re still talking with someone from the previous month you will need to message or respond to 5 new people the next month.

If this seems like a lot, it’s literally just over one message a week. Sending someone a message that says, “Hi,” would constitute sending a new person a message. But, we would highly recommend that you send more than just a boring message like that because you won’t be getting much in the way of results. We have a guide on sending the perfect first message that you should definitely read if you want to improve your chances of success.

Also, keep in mind that this is different from sending an instant message, phone call, or wink on Match.com. It has to be an actual message through their messaging platform.

Contact Match.com During Your Last Week

It was not completely clear on Match’s website whether you would automatically receive the extension or you had to request it, but we believe it says you have to actually go in and accept it. During your last 7 days at Match, go into your “Guarantee Progress Page” from your dashboard, and you should have an option to accept the guarantee by affirming that you haven’t met anyone.

If you can’t find it or are confused at all, just reach out to customer support and tell them you want to take advantage of the Match.com guarantee extension. They should be able to get you set up with no problems.

The Bigger Picture and Getting Started Now

We want to make sure that no one here is going into their Match.com subscription with the goal of taking advantage of the guarantee. While it’s nice to see that it is there and you should follow their guidelines in case you need it, your main goal should be to find love. The steps they laid out to be eligible are not meant as hoops to exclude you from the guarantee. They are meant to try and help you find that special someone. So, do what you need to in case you need the guarantee, but let your main focus be finding love!

How to Cancel Your Online Dating Account

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So, you’ve given a new online dating site a try, and it’s just not for you? Or, maybe you’ve found that special someone, and it’s time to close out the searching chapter of your life (congrats if that’s you!). Either way, you’re most likely here because you want to cancel your online dating account, but you can’t figure out how.

We’re here to help. It’s important that you cancel your online dating account for a lot of reasons. One – if you’re paying for a membership you don’t want it to auto-renew and charge you again for a service you don’t need. Two – if you’ve found that special someone, you don’t want to keep getting emails from potential suitors or have one of their friends tell them they saw you online still.

If you need to cancel your online dating account, follow the next few steps and tips we have laid out for you.

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Where do I go to cancel my online dating account?

While all online dating site cancellation processes are going to be a little different, there are some common places that you can most likely find what you’re looking for. We’ve ranked those below in order of where you are most likely to find them.

1. Check in your account preferences or settings.

Most likely in the top right-hand area of the home screen, you’ll see some sort of a drop-down menu. You may have to click on your account name or a little down arrow or something like that. When you do this, you’re going to see a menu that has your account preferences or your settings. Within one of those options is where you are most likely going to find where to cancel your online dating account.

It might not be labeled “Cancel account” or something convenient like that. This is either because the developer didn’t think this through or maybe the dating site doesn’t want to make it easy to cancel your account. Here are some things it could be labeled:

  • Update Subscription
  • Subscription Status
  • Membership Details
  • Account Status
  • Your Account

Those are just a few examples of how it might be listed. Basically, anything that has the word subscription or account with it is what you’re looking for here. When you find that section, look for something with the word cancel in it. You’ll need to click the option and most likely click the ‘Save’ or ‘Submit’ button. MAKE SURE that you submit or save the details. If you don’t do this, your account is probably not going to be canceled.

You should also get some sort of confirmation. We’ll discuss exactly what you’re looking for and what to do if you don’t get confirmation in the tips section below.

2. Check in your billing information section.

If you can’t find how to cancel your online dating account in any of the sections we talked about above, your next stop needs to be looking for your billing information. This will almost always be titled ‘Billing’ or something like that. Again, this may be in that menu in the upper right, or it could be across the top of the screen or possibly in the footer. Basically, look around the outer edges of your member homepage for the billing tab.

When you get there, you’ll most likely see a way to update your payment information and your billing address. You should also see a place to update your subscription status or cancel your account. It will be one of those two, and it should be there if it weren’t somewhere that we listed in the first section of this guide.

Once you find it, follow the same steps we gave you earlier to make sure your dating account gets canceled. You MUST save or submit the information, and you must get some form of confirmation. Again, we will cover this step in more detail in the tips section at the bottom of the guide.

3. Contact customer support (if you have time).

If the above does not work, then it’s time to reach out to customer service. A lot of times online dating sites will tell you that it is your responsibility to cancel, but they have to at least tell you where and how to do that. To make things easy on you, we’ve put together a form email that you can copy and paste and send to your online dating site’s customer support. There should be a contact form on the site, or you can just Google the site’s name and customer service email. That should return something for you.


I am writing because I want to cancel my online dating account effective immediately. Please change my subscription so that auto-renew is turned off and I will not be billed again.

My username is ___________ and the email address associated with my account is _______________.

Thank you,


If you want them to delete your account completely when they cancel it, you can request that in the email as well.

Remember, a lot of online dating sites have live customer service help that you can reach out to as well if you’d like. If you do that, just tell them exactly what we said above and they should be able to help you. Make sure you have your username or at least the email you used to create your account handy so that they can identify who you are.

There’s a chance that the online dating site will just email you back instructions on how to cancel your account. While we’d prefer that they do it for you, we can understand why some companies choose to do this. If they do, just follow the instructions that they sent you and you should be good to go.

If you use this route, MAKE SURE that you get some sort of confirmation email or confirmation number from the live support agent. You should also write down when you called or chatted and who you spoke with. This will help you in the event that there is a problem with your cancelation and the site tries to charge you again for no reason.

Tips to Help You When Canceling Your Online Dating Account

Hopefully, the above methods to cancel your online dating account go smoothly, and you have no problems. That being said, we do want to give you some tips to help make sure the process goes smoothly, and you protect yourself in the event that there is a problem in the future. We have heard a few stories of people thinking that they got their online dating account canceled, only to find out that there was a problem and they were charged again. Some of them got their money back, and some did not.

Don’t Wait Until the Last Minute

If you don’t want to be charged again, don’t risk waiting until the last minute to try and get your online dating account canceled. It might take the site a few days to process your cancelation which is usually covered in their terms of service. It may also take you a little while to find where to cancel your account which could push you over the deadline. Most of the time, this responsibility is going to fall on you, and you won’t get a refund.

Cancel your online dating account well ahead of time if you are not interested in renewing. Almost every dating site out there will still let you use the remainder of the time you paid for even after you cancel. So, if you wanted to, you could actually cancel your account the second after you sign up and you’ll still get the full duration of what you paid for.

Realize Your Account Will Not be Deleted

When you cancel your online dating account, your information and profile are not going to be deleted. This may be a good thing or a bad thing for you depending on why you want to cancel. If you are canceling because you need a break or are not sure if you want to renew or not, this is a good thing. All of your messages and everything else will be stored by the site for an extended period of time. That way if you decide to join again, you can pick back up right where you left off.

But, if you’re canceling because you’ve found love, this might not be a positive. You’ll want to inquire further about how to get your account completely deleted. Spoiler, they don’t make this easy, and some sites won’t even let you do it. You’ll need to go in and just delete everything manually in those situations. Delete your pictures, profile answers, etc. and you should be good to go. You’ll still technically have an account on there, but nothing will be searchable or public for anyone to see.

Get a Confirmation of Some Sort For Your Records

For the love of everything holy, please make sure that you get some sort of confirmation that your cancelation has gone through. AND! Make sure that you hang onto this cancelation confirmation for at least a few weeks after the end of your membership term.

Why? Glad you asked. If for some reason the online dating site tries to improperly charge you (which has and does happen), you need to be able to prove to them that you canceled your account. This should be plenty to get them to reverse the charge and give you your money back. If they won’t give you your money back and you have confirmation, you can take them to court, and you will win. But, we really don’t think it would ever come to that; they’ll give you your money back in the off chance that they accidentally charge you.

Where to Go Next

If you’re canceling your dating account because you found love, you know where to go next. But, if you’re canceling because the site wasn’t a good fit, then you’re probably on the lookout for a site that is more fitting. Online dating can be great, but only if you’re at a dating site that fits you and what you’re looking for.

Here are some top options to get you started. Many of these options are pulled straight form our list of the best dating apps of the year.

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Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

Feature Review: The Christian Café Matchmaking Process


When it comes to online dating, Christian Café has all the right ingredients to help you find your best online dating match. Some online dating users want to have very detailed control over their searches, whereas others like a more informal approach. Whatever your preferences are in finding your online dating match, Christian Café has you covered. Let’s look at the different features Christian Café offers in their matchmaking process.

What is the Christian Café Matchmaking Process?

Let’s start at the beginning, what exactly is matchmaking? Matchmaking is a process of matching two individuals together, often for the sole purpose of creating marriages. Matchmaking was most often a profession, and dates back centuries. Matchmaking has been seen in many ways in cultures around the world.

One example of matchmaking could be seen at formal and informal dances where matchmakers were hired (by their client, often a man) to try and pair up two people to see if they got along well. Matchmaking has always had more of a focus on romantic love, rather than on the assets of the male suitor. For many centuries people married based upon their social status and personal economy. Professional matchmakers had to take these factors into consideration as well but focused mainly on helping their clients to find romantic love.

Christian Café has created a matchmaking process to not only help you find your best match, but to also allow you to determine how much control you want to have in that process. In an array of online dating sites, Christian Café has helped its users streamline the process of finding their online dating match with ease. They understand the importance of not only finding love but finding it in the way that works best for you.

There are four different matchmaking processes offered within the Christian Café site: quick match, advanced search, saved searches, and forum message boards. All four of these processes assist online dating users to find their special match by using the feature, or combination of, that works best for them. Let’s look a deeper look into each of these features to see how they work and how they will help you to find your best online dating match.

Quick Match

This is a matchmaking tool which gives you matches based upon the following criteria: level of faith, location, age, type of relationship you want (casual dating, just curious, seeking marriage, etc.). Just as it sounds, the quick match feature quickly shows you matches who meet this basic criterion. This feature is best for those just getting their toes wet with online dating. If you want to get to a more specific match, then the next feature advanced search will be more your speed.

Search Advanced Matchmaking

If you are seeking more specific criteria with your online dating matches, then the Christain Café advanced search feature is for you. With this feature, you are able to search for more detailed preferences for other online dating users. Some of the items you are able to search include: church involvement, physical appearance, church denomination, and smoking and drinking habits. This more specific search criteria can help to eliminate less compatible matches and save you time and headaches.

Saved Searches

One of the coolest matchmaking features available on Christain Café is their saved searches function. With this feature, you are able to create five unique searches and save each set of search criteria. For example, maybe you have one set of search criteria to include online dating matches who do not drink at all and are at least 5’ 10” in height, and another for matches who only drink occasionally and meet the same height requirements.

Another great aspect of the saved searches function is that you can set the frequency for which you receive email notifications based upon the different saved searches. Your email messages will also designate which specific search the online dating matches came from. This is a great way to interact with the Christian Café platform and see your specific matches when and how you want.

Christian Forums Message Board

One of the most unique matchmaking features on any dating website is Christian Café’s message-board style chat groups. Unlike most chat groups, these forums are used specifically by Christain singles who are looking for their Christian match. The forum discussions offer a great way for online dating users to get to one potential matches by how they interact with other people on various topics.

The Christian Café Forums are divided into three different topics each with their own separate subjects. The three forum topics are dating and relationships, general interest, and Christianity. These forums allow you to get to know other members on a deeper level and to do more than just find love, to build new friendships. Let’s look more at each individual forum and some of the subjects they cover.

Dating and Relationships

In this forum topic, there are great subjects covered which are tailored to help single Christians to have a better understanding and experience with online dating. Subjects included are: Ask Men, Ask Women, Single Parents, Critique My Profile, Fifty Plus, 30 to 49, Under 30, and Over and Under. Each niche discussion group helps to meet the more specific needs of the online dating user and helps to answer their questions. Members are always welcome to post new subjects for discussion inside any of the forums.

General Interest

This forum is much broader in its discussions as subjects range from current events to cooking and recipes. This is the forum where you can talk with other Christian Café online dating users about their health and fitness goals and advice; or you could get into a discussion over the greatest movies of all time. Whatever sports team is your favorite, you can find a message board with other Christian singles chatting about it in the general interest forums.


The last message board is the Christianity message board forum. The discussion subjects you can chat about in this forum with other Christian Café online dating users could be about their current Bible study, devotional, or even their praise reports. This is the message board forum where more deep philosophical conversations tend to take place. If deep conversations is your thing, then you can find some message boards in this feature where you will feel right at home with people who think the same way you do.

The Wrap Up

If you are just getting familiar with the Christian Café website, you may opt to start with the quick match feature. If you are an online dating pro, then the saved searches functionality may be your go-to option. The discussion forums offer a great in-depth way to get to know potential online dating matches in a relaxed environment. With Christian Café, whatever level of online dating you may be seeking from casual dating to marriage, you will find the right matchmaking feature, or combination of, to help you achieve your goals.

Feature Review: Elite Singles Personality Test and Matching Process


Elite Singles is already well known in the online dating world to have great matches, and most of its users are college educated making it a magnet to the more affluent user. What really sets Elite Singles apart is its processes.

Elite Singles has an incredible personality test which works side by side with its matching process to bring you your perfect fit in a match right to your inbox. Read on to find out more about these amazing features from Elite Singles and how they can help you to meet your Mr. or Mrs. Right.

Read: The Elite Singles Free Trial

What is the Elite Singles Personality Test?

The Elite Singles personality test is a questionnaire format which is broken into ten different sections. Each section is designed to learn more about your personality and partner preferences based upon your answers. The answers are then categorized into five main factors of personality as according to the Five Factor Model Theory. This theory was developed in 1988 by two psychologists who specialized in personality research, Robert McCrae and Paul Costa.

The personality test is very easy to complete and takes on average 10-20 minutes to complete. The ten sections of the test include questions that require you to answer according to a scale where you believe you rank in your agreeableness to the statement. Other questions are open-ended, some are based upon selecting words which reflect you best. All the questions are geared towards finding out where you fit personality-wise according to the Five Factor Model.

The first section of questions is aimed toward your general information, such as your name, age, and location. The second section of questions asks about your religious beliefs and preferences for a partner. The third section of questions is regarding your personality, some examples of these questions are: “I make time for others,” “I often feel overwhelmed by things,” and “I always seek out adventure.”

The fourth section of questions asks about how you would describe yourself, for example, “warm,” “extroverted,” and “agreeable.” The fifth section touches on your personal characteristics, some examples would be: “I have a great sense of humor,” and “Conversing with new people is easy for me.”

The model used for the Elite Singles personality test is what sets it apart from other online dating websites, as well as the short amount of time it takes to complete. The personality test is presented to you in sections, or individual pages, with the questions presented in a clear list format requiring not much more than a one-click answer.

Other online dating sites will ask you one question at a time, one webpage at a time, this makes for quite a lengthy process. Elite Singles has the easiest and fasted personality test to complete, yet you still receive a quality personality assessment.

Why is the Elite Singles Personality Test Different?

The thing that makes the elite Singles personality test different is the structure and model used to create the test. The Five Factor Model Theory, developed by psychologists Costa and McCrae in 1988, is the model used to create the personality test for Elite Singles.

This model states that there are five areas in which our personalities can be well defined: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism. The personality test gives a comprehensive review of who you are and what your preferences in a potential partner would be.

Let’s look more at the five areas in the Five Factor Model Theory, or the Big Five as it is often referred to as. The first area we will discuss (in no particular order) is openness. A person’s openness is the degree to which they are willing, or not, to hold onto the thoughts and behaviors they have always been accustomed to.

Some people are able to throw out their old thoughts and patterns for new ideas and new ways of accomplishing tasks or solving problems. Other people are very set in their ways and are not open to new ideas or processes.

Another area of the personality which is looked at extensively with the Elite Singles personality test is Agreeableness. When measuring agreeableness, this is not solely regarding how much you agree with other people, but rather how you interact with others. Are you more willing to neglect yourself to the benefit of others? For example, are you willing to do everything to take care of your partner, only to realize you have no time left to take care of yourself? The extent to which we are agreeable with others depends upon the way we were raised and our cultural backgrounds, some are more agreeable, while others are way less.

The Elite Singles personality test also determines the conscientiousness of the user based upon their answers to questions and preferences. The conscientiousness aspect of our personalities factors in how we go about tackling tasks. The way that one person manages their daily to do list whether at work or enjoying a day off from work can vary greatly. Some people are extremely organized with lists and numerically ordered priorities, while others are much more flexible or spontaneous with how they will finish tasks.

The next area of personality measured in the Elite Singles personality test according to the Big Five Theory is extraversion. Now this is something that can certainly fluctuate from day to day based upon a person’s mood, but we all have a baseline for what we prefer most.

Some people like to be highly social and always have something going on with their friends and family, while others are cool just chilling at home by themselves. When looking for an online dating match, you want someone who matches your level of desired extraversion. If you are with someone who is not very outgoing and social, but you are, that would be a miserable situation for you to be in, and vice versa.

The last area of personality the Elite Singles personality test measures is neuroticism. What exactly is neuroticism? Well, in a nutshell it is how much we are influenced by our emotions. Do you often give into your emotions and your actions reflect that imbalance, or are you more level headed and don’t let your emotions get the best of you?

This can be one of those make or break areas, or deal breaker areas, when it comes to an online dating match. People who have bad tempers fall onto the more neurotic end of the scale, versus those who are more Cool Hand Luke and can remain calm in nearly any situation.

All five of these areas of the personality are taken into consideration with the Elite Singles personality test. The process of determining a user’s personality is what makes the personality test different from all those other algorithm-based online dating sites. You need just the right mix of these personality traits to create a great match and Elite Singles has cracked the code on just that.

Elite Singles personality test chart

How Does the Elite Singles Matchmaking Process Work?

There is a four-step process used to match Elite Singles’ online dating users. These four steps are all vital in helping these users to find true lasting love. We all want to meet our ‘person’ as soon as possible, and that can take some time, but with Elite Singles specialized matchmaking process they help to streamline the process for you as much as possible. This process not only simplifies things for you, it saves you time. Let’s look more into these four steps.

The first step in the Elite Single’s matchmaking process is their personality test. As we discussed previously, this test is based upon evaluating five of the most important personality factors: openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism. Personalities that are complementary to each other is very important in finding your best online dating match, but it’s only the first of four matchmaking steps.

The second step in the Elite Single’s matchmaking process is determining your preferences, because Elite Singles knows you need more in a relationship than just compatible personalities. These preferences include things such as your deal breakers, location, age preference, lifestyle (smoking, drinking, etc.), and even family issues such as whether you want children and marriage.

Nothing is worse than meeting someone with an incredible personality and developing feelings for that person only to find out they are a smoker and smoking is your one and only deal breaker. Elite Singles works hard to ensure your preferences are considered in the matchmaking process.

Elite Singles matchmaking diagram

The third step in the elite Single’s matchmaking process is to ensure your matches are active users. We’ve all been there, you were on some online dating site and decided to take charge and search for your own match, and you come across the most amazing profile only to find out they haven’t been active in several months, or even worse… years. No one wants to have to go through that upset, so the Elite Single’s customer care team makes sure you won’t have to. The customer care team filters out inactive profiles, so they won’t appear in your matches… ever.

The final step in the Elite Single’s matchmaking process is to send you specific partner matches every day. You will receive three to seven specific matches daily which will match up well with your personality, preferences and are also active users. This is the area of online dating which really saves you so much time.

You don’t need to try and find your best matches, they will be sent to you each day hassle-free. Knowing that all your online dating matches have been vetted by Elite Single’s matchmaking process helps to give you the peace of mind many other online dating sites just can’t do.

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We have some excellent resources for you to find out more about Elite Singles. Do you want to find out how you can try out a free trial of Elite Singles? Or, perhaps you are interested in the membership pricing and benefits versus a free membership? Find all the answers to your questions through our resources below.

Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

Jdate | Online Dating Site Bio


What is the History of Jdate?


Jdate started out as a joking conversation between two men in a Los Angeles, California restaurant about how there was such a lack of online dating services; especially those catering specifically to the Jewish community from which they were both a part of. Today, Jdate is the leading online dating site for Jewish singles. It went from a joke, to a major success, and is now celebrating over 20 years of helping singles from the Jewish community all over the world find love.

Launched back in 1997 from a West Los Angeles apartment, Jdate was the first online dating site created by what is now known as Spark Networks SE. Spark Networks SE is headquartered in Berlin, Germany and services the United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Australia, and other international countries. In total, Spark Networks SE operates in 29 countries around the world. Although the headquarters of Jdate is in Berlin, Germany, there is a U.S. based customer care team available seven days a week to assist its customers.

In a time when the internet was just becoming popular and cell phones were basically non-existent, one of the original co-founders of Jdate, Joe Shapira, was told by his friend about this service he signed up for. The friend went on to tell Shapira that the service cost three thousand dollars a year, and they would help you to find dates. Curious about this process, Shapira made an appointment to go check it out. He arrived at an office where he was sat down and asked to look through a binder filled with pages and pages of women’s photos and profiles. If he liked someone he could leave a message with the office, and they would relay it to the woman.

Although Shapira did not sign up for a membership that day, he was greatly influenced by the experience to take the concept to greater places… to the internet. Jdate has now been the catalyst for hundreds of thousands of relationships from friendships to marriages. Jdate states on their website their mission is to “strengthen the Jewish community and ensure Jewish traditions are sustained for generations to come.” For over 20 years, Jdate has been keeping that promise.

Who Were the Founders of Jdate?

It is always interesting when you find out about childhood best friends creating something meaningful together, and that is the story of Jdate founders, Joe Shapira and Alon Carmel. These childhood friends grew up together and created Jdate from nothing, and today Jdate is a global leader in online dating platforms for the Jewish single community.

Joe Shapira, born Yoav Shapira, is one of the co-founders of Jdate. Shapira was born and raised in Giv’atayim a city in Israel just east of Tel Aviv-Yafo. Growing up, Shapira, focused on learning about electrical engineering due to his father, uncles, and grandfather all working in electricity at the Israel Electric Company. Shapira graduated from high school and then went on to join the Israeli Air Force. After serving for three years, in 1973, Joe Shapira was honorably discharged during the Yom Kippur War.

In 1979, Shapira immigrated to the United States with his first wife. He went on to graduate from Princeton University. Joe Shapira along with his childhood friend, Alon Carmel, created Jdate from a Los Angeles apartment. Shapira served as the CEO of The Spark Network, the parent company to Jdate, until he stepped down in 2006. Joe Shapira was named one of the most influential Jews in America by The Forward, a New York City monthly magazine publication.

Joe Shapira has been an activist for pro-Israel campaigns through the American Israel Public Affairs Committee. In 2005, Shapira was named the outstanding member of the year by ORT America, a global non-profit Jewish organization which promotes teaching and training. Shapira was also invited to participate as a delegate in Israel’s 60th birthday celebration hosted by former President George W. Bush.

Alon Carmel, a lifelong friend of Shapira, was another co-founder of Jdate. At the time the idea was presented to him, Carmel had just taken a huge financial loss in the real estate market in California, so he didn’t have much to lose at the time. Today, Carmel is the largest private shareholder of Jdate stock, even though he doesn’t play an active role in the company or its operations. In 1979, Alon Carmel graduated from Technion University in Haifa, Israel with a Bachelor of Science in civil engineering. Carmel stepped down from the Sparks Networks board in 2006 to pursue other philanthropic and entrepreneurial efforts.

What Type of Singles Does Jdate Cater to?

Many online daters believe Jdate only caters to the single Jewish community, however this could not be farther from the truth. You do not have to be Jewish to sign up for an online dating profile with Jdate. Non-Jewish Jdate members can designate their openness to Judaism by selecting “willing to convert,” “not sure if willing to convert,” and “not willing to convert” during the signup process.

Jdate has a great number of members utilizing the online dating service. In the U.S. alone, Jdate has 240,000 members, 180,000 of which are active weekly. A survey showed most active users on Jdate’s site are females between the ages 35 to 49. Overall, Jdate users are 57 percent female and 43 percent male.

Jewish tradition states that anyone who aids in Jewish matches which lead to marriage will be blessed with shares of a new world in their afterlife. Co-founders of Jdate, Joe Shapira and Alon Carmel, have helped thousands of single people find love and marriage through online dating, so if the tradition holds true, they stand to reap a lot of shares in their next adventure. At least in this life they know they have done something amazing to help so many wonderful people find and keep love.

What is Jdate’s Industry Reputation?

In 2011, a study was conducted by an independent research company called ResearchNow to survey nearly 1,000 married Jewish couples who were able to find love through online dating. Of these 1,000 married Jewish couples, the survey concluded Jdate was responsible for 52 percent of those marriages whom had their start through online dating. This makes Jdate the leading source of online dating marriages, more than any other online dating sites combined.

Did you know that even the President of Match.com used Jdate to find love? Everyone knows Jdate is where it is at when it comes to a high-quality online dating experience and great matches. Not only is Jdate a leader in facilitating more Jewish marriages than any other online dating site combined, but Jdate also attracts the industry’s top leaders to its amazing online dating service as well. This speaks volumes about Jdate as a company, their success, and industry reputation.

Things You Need to Know About Jdate

Below you will find a few more resources about Jdate we have put together for you. If you are interested in getting to know more about the Jdate online dating site and how it works, the cost to sign up, and the overall rating of their online dating service then check out the links below.

Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

The eHarmony Guarantee | Details, Eligibility, and How To Get It (2020)

When a company is so committed to their product, they are willing to give you a satisfaction guarantee, that is a pretty big dill! The eHarmony guarantee is a pledge from the owners of the dating app to ensure you enjoy your time with them and have the success you’re looking for.

Understanding what you get with the guarantee, how to get signed up, and what you have to do in order to be eligible to receive the benefits are all important to a great experience with eHarmony.

As you’ll see, the eHarmony guarantee is one that you will hopefully not ever have a need for, but it’s going to be nice to know that it’s there as a financial safety net.

What is the eHarmony Guarantee?

The eHarmony guarantee states that if you are not happy with your matches in the first three months of using eHarmony’s site, they will give you another three months free, on the house.

Logo of the eHarmony guarantee

Basically, if you don’t think that you got your money’s worth with the quality and quantity of matches on eHarmony, they’ll tack on an additional three more months to your membership free of charge.

Here are a few fine-print details of the eHarmony Guarantee you should know.

  • You may redeem your guarantee prior to the expiration of your membership by contacting customer support via phone, the chat function, or through email.
  • You are only able to redeem the guarantee once per account meaning that if after six months it’s still not right for you, it might be time to try a different online dating site or purchase a longer membership if you think you still need more time with eHarmony.
  • This guarantee extends to any reason you are unhappy with eHarmony and not just unhappiness with the matches offered. You do still have to fulfill the same criteria listed below to receive the account extension.
  • The eHarmony Guarantee is only good for an initial subscription. It does not apply to renewals, membership extensions, or other premium services added later.
  • You’re not going to get a refund out of eHarmony. You also can’t transfer the membership to anyone else. It is just for you, and you can only get the bonus three months added on to your existing membership immediately.

This says an awful lot about how much eHarmony believes you will meet quality matches within your first ninety days. We are impressed with eHarmony’s commitment to ensuring their customers are satisfied with their online dating service.

How Do I Get the eHarmony Guarantee?

Getting the eHarmony guarantee added to your account is simple. Use the free trial links on this page to create your account and the most recent version of the guarantee will be added to your account. If you’re not happy with your membership after ninety days and you complete all of the eligibility criteria listed in the next section, you’ll be eligible for the guarantee.

The eHarmony Guarantee Eligibility Criteria

  1. Complete the eHarmony Relationship Questionnaire
  2. Fully Fill Out Your eHarmony Profile
  3. Message At Least Five Other Members
  4. Subscribe To At Least a 3-Month Membership
  5. Comply With eHarmony’s Terms and Conditions

To be eligible for the eHarmony Guarantee, there are five things you need to do to prove you truly tried to find that special someone in your first three months. Read on to learn more about these five requirements. Remember, you will NOT be able to cash-in on the guarantee unless you’ve done these five things prior to the end of your membership.

1. Complete the eHarmony Relationship Questionnaire

 The first step in creating your eHarmony profile is to complete the questionnaire. It takes approximately 40-45 minutes to complete this step. Why create a profile without completing the questionnaires these online dating sites provide anyways? You really do want to complete them so eHarmony’s algorithm program can filter out the best possible matches for you. Totally worth the 45-minute investment!

The signup process goes through three steps which combine to create your compatibility questionnaire results. The three steps to completing the eHarmony questionnaire are: setting up your personal dating profile, determining your match preferences, and a compatibility quiz. These steps are all completed by answering a series of questions.

Most questions are set up for you to be able to select one answer from a scale or select multiple pre-determined answers based upon your unique preferences and personality traits. There are a few open-ended questions, however most of these questions are designed to only require a one-word response. You are more than welcome to write more in response to these open-ended questions if you would prefer.

Before you are even able to see matches you need to complete your eHarmony questionnaire. eHarmony’s questionnaire is totally worth the time investment. It is also obvious eHarmony (and anyone who uses their online dating site) takes the process seriously. You can have confidence in knowing other eHarmony users mean business when it comes to finding their best online dating match.

2. Fully Fill Out Your eHarmony Profile

 The next requirement of the eHarmony Guarantee is the completion of your eHarmony profile. In addition to completing your eHarmony profile, you will need at least three approved photos included within your profile. Completing the information in your profile is very easy and includes things such as:

  • Basics: name, location, age, height, ethnicity, occupation, education level, school attended, religion, political view
  • Lifestyle: smoking, drinking, kids, pets
  • Your 3 best life skills
  • 3 things you’re thankful for
  • 5 things you can’t live without
  • How your friends would describe you
  • What you are most passionate about
  • How you typically spend your leisure time
  • Sports you like to play
  • Things you like to watch (movies, TV, etc.)
  • The most important thing you are looking for in a partner
  • The most influential person in your life

If for some crazy reason you did not meet any quality matches in the first three months of signing up for eHarmony, make sure you have completed filling out all areas of your online dating profile to be eligible for the eHarmony Guarantee. Completing all these areas is vital to your overall success of being matched with the best possible partner.

3. Message At Least Five Other Members

 Sending messages and replying to messages is so important if you want to meet your best online dating match. You need to try and make a real effort if you want to meet someone amazing. Just signing up with eHarmony and creating your profile isn’t enough.

The second part of eligibility for the eHarmony Guarantee is that you need to send or reply to messages from or to at least five different eHarmony members. This is one of those things eHarmony can check on for you if you are not entirely sure. You can check your message outbox to see how many messages you have initiated or replied to as well.

If you have messaged or replied to at least five eHarmony members, and you still have had no luck finding the right person, have no fear, you will meet someone. Sometimes love takes time, so don’t be discouraged. eHarmony would be happy to keep their eHarmony Guarantee of three months free if you meet the next three requirements with your eHarmony account.

4. Subscribe To At Least a 3-Month Membership

 The next requirement of the eHarmony Guarantee is that you have subscribed to a paid membership of at least three months or more. There are a lot of options when it comes to paid memberships, so be sure to check out our review of eHarmony benefits first. We also offer a great eHarmony cost breakdown that simplifies all the eHarmony pricing options for your convenience. If you meet this aspect of the eHarmony Guarantee (all with the other four requirements), eHarmony will give you three free months based upon your current membership type.

There are two types of paid memberships available through eHarmony standard and premium, and both come with different benefits. You will be given three additional months of membership (either the standard or premium membership) based upon what you paid for when you initially signed up.

We strongly encourage that you utilize the eHarmony free trial offer prior to signing up for a paid membership. This will allow you to test out the site and see if it is the right fit for you. What you get with your eHarmony free trial: an ability to create a profile and upload profile photos, use of site features and explore layout and matching process, read through profiles of other singles and potential matches, and occasional free communication weekends with full messaging capabilities.

5. Comply With eHarmony’s Terms and Conditions

 Most people simply click the “I agree” box and don’t really think twice about a website’s terms and conditions. Mainly because they don’t want to take the time to read all the fine print. So long as you are not signing away your first born or the deed to your home, you figure hey why not save some time and just click the box, right?

When it comes to reading a website’s terms and conditions we know we should do it, it’s kind of like exercise, you know you’re supposed to workout (and eat healthily), but sometimes this tends to fall through the cracks – much the same way people don’t read through those pesky terms of use. To be eligible for the eHarmony Guarantee though, it is important you are following their terms and conditions of use.

One of the eHarmony terms of use is that you can only receive three free months of paid membership (as per the eHarmony Guarantee) if you are a brand-new user and have not created an account previously. You are only eligible one time for the guarantee. You can review the eHarmony Terms and Conditions of use here to ensure you are meeting this last step of the requirement process.

How do I redeem the eHarmony Guarantee?

If you’re at this stage, we’re sad things haven’t worked out for you yet. Love takes timing, and we think it’s awesome that you are here looking to extend your membership to keep giving it a go. Thankfully, eHarmony is going to foot the bill on the net three months because it seems like they really want you to find that happiness.

The easiest way to redeem the guarantee is by sending an email to Customer Care at [email protected] during the last 30 days of your current subscription.

Additionally, you can contact the site via phone or their live chat function to get things squared away.

Important! Now that we got your attention…It is extremely important that you take care of this before your account renews if you have auto-renew selected. If you don’t, your account will renew, and you will be back in business except you will be the one footing the bill. Take care of this in the last 30 days of your contract to make sure there are no issues.

The Bottom Line – The eHarmony Guarantee

eHarmony is so committed to their product and process that they stand behind it with the eHarmony Guarantee, something a lot of other online dating sites do not offer. When a company such as eHarmony can put their money where your mouth is, that speaks volumes about their brand. eHarmony knows they have some of the highest quality matches in the world using their site, and that is why they are able to make such a bold guarantee.

Remember the five requirements you will need to meet to be eligible for this three free month guarantee: complete the questionnaire, complete your online dating profile, send or reply to some messages, subscribe to at least a three-month paid membership, and be in compliance with eHarmony’s terms of use. If somehow you are not able to meet a quality match in your first three month’s eHarmony will make it up to you with three more months on the house! Now that’s one great guarantee!

Also, keep in mind that the eHarmony Guarantee is, of course, subject to change at any point and time if the company sees fit. We’ll do our best to keep things updated here, but that’s just something we want to make sure to mention.

That being said, use the link below to get started checking out eHarmony right now!

Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.

Christian Mingle | Online Dating Site Bio

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Christian Mingle Homepage Screenshot


History of Christian Mingle

Christian Mingle Logo

Christian Mingle had its original start back in 2001 when it was launched by Mingle Match Inc. On May 23rd, 2005, Mingle Match Inc. was purchased by Spark Networks Inc. Mingle Match Inc. now operates as a subsidiary of Spark Networks SE, the newest company formed by the Spark Network when they merged with Affinitas GmbH back in 2017. The continual acquisition of successful online dating platforms, such as Christian Mingle, by the Spark Network is all a part of their efforts to continually expand their niche market in the online dating industry.

The Spark Networks SE has its headquarters in Berlin, Germany. By 2013, the Spark Network had over 10 million registered users, a milestone in the online dating industry. In 2014, the Christian Mingle launched its mobile dating app which pushed them forward in innovations and the online dating community. On December 17th, 2015, Christian Mingle transitioned to a full website makeover to increase the functionality of both their mobile dating app platform and their desktop site. The improvements included a redesign of the user’s inbox and a brand-new feature highlighting each member’s “daily matches.” Both updates were wildly enjoyed by Christian Mingle members.

Since it’s beginnings in 2001, Christian Mingle has had 16 million users, 9 million of which are currently registered, and 154,000 of those members are paying for a subscription to use the sites full features. The company, Sparks Networks SE, services the United States, Canada, United Kingdom, Australia, and other international countries.

In 2016, Christian Mingle underwent a lawsuit in the state of California based upon claims the company was not in-line with the state’s non-discrimination law. The result of the lawsuit forced Christian Mingle to start allowing gay men and women to use their online dating service. Prior to the lawsuit, members could only search for “man seeking woman” or “woman seeking man.” Now users can see same-sex matches. In an interview with the Washington Post, the Spark Network stated it has no plans to advertise Christian Mingle to the gay Christian community, or to make any efforts to make the site work better for gay or bisexual users.

Founders of Christian Mingle

Christian Mingle has been around for a long time. It was first launched back in 2001 by two guys who meet each other at a ping pong table while at work. These two guys, Ben Peterson and Ryan Sanders, became co-founders of Mingle Match Inc. the original parent company of Christian Mingle.

Ben Peterson was co-founder and President of Mingle Match Inc. He received a bachelor’s degree in entrepreneurship and has become an expert in online marketing and advertising. Since 2008, Peterson has been the co-founder of BambooHR, a human resource software program that helps small and medium sized businesses. He has also worked as an advisor for startup companies of all shapes and sizes. Ben Peterson also serves as a member of the board for Entice Labs Inc., an online automated program out of Provo, Utah. Entice Labs Inc. specializes in advertisement targeting toward job seekers in different website-based communities.

Ryan Sanders was also a co-founder of Mingle Match Inc. and served as it’s Vice President. Following the acquisition of Mingle Match Inc. by the Spark Network in 2005, Sanders and Peterson went on to develop the company BambooHR in 2008. BambooHR was a new venture for both Peterson and Sander’s. With their experience in software development and entrepreneurship, they were able to development software for human resource teams that would go on to help tens of thousands of people across the country.

What Type of Singles Does Christian Mingle Cater to?

A 2016 survey conducted by SurveyMonkey Intelligence, found that 58.6 percent of Christian Mingle users were female, which makes Christian Mingle number one in female subscribers among the nations top 10 online dating sites. If you are a single female of one of the Christian denominations this is good news for you! That means men know there are more women on this online dating site than any other, so they go to Christian Mingle to find you.

The Christian Mingle site has a statement of faith listed on their website so all who visit, or signup know exactly what they are about, and what niche market they cater to. The Christian Mingle’s statement of faith reads, “The basis for our faith is Jesus Christ, the Son of God, Lord and Savior of the world and God’s written Word, the Bible. We believe that embracing what God said allows us to live in freedom, joy and purpose.” Christian Mingle states their online dating site is unlike any other dating site because faith and values are built into their community; and that faith to their members is not just some box you simply check.

The whole goal of Christian Mingle is to help men and women find relationships that are God-centered and built on mutual faith. If your Christian faith is something you treasure dearly, and you want to find lasting love with someone who holds their faith in the same regard, then Christian Mingle is for you. No matter your age or your sexual preference, you can find great matches in just a few clicks.

Christian Mingle’s Industry Reputation

Most of us know about the cute romcom movie called Christian Mingle which features the famous online dating site. The movie was released in the U.S. on October 10th, 2014 and features the story of a woman who works in marketing as an executive and has not had much luck in finding her Mr. Right. She decides to get back in touch with her spiritual side thinking this will lead her to Mr. Right. After a bumpy road and a few issues along the way, she finally finds her happy ending… awe! The movie is super cheesy and cute; however, it only received a 4.3 out of 10 rating from IMDb due to the excessive cheesiness.

The fairy tale depicted in the film really does come true for over a hundred thousand people every year thanks to Christian Mingle. Christian Mingle is known for having the highest percentage of female users, something that Christian males seeking a serious loving relationship don’t take lightly. Christian Mingle is like the holy grail (pun intended) for male users, which in turn makes it a great community for online dating to the female users as well. Christian Mingle holds the number one spot in the percentage of women users out of the top 10 online dating sites in the entire country, something for them to boast about for sure.

As of 2016 Christian Mingle is also a gay-friendly website, and they are not making any special features or changes regarding sexual preferences to ensure equal treatment across the board for all its members.  The Spark Network stated, “Like all other companies, we must abide by the laws that govern our state and nation.” Christina Mingle updated their online dating platform to allow users the option to easily view either opposite sex profiles or same-sex profiles based upon their sexual preference. Members of the online dating website can easily switch back and forth between opposite and same-sex filter options.

Things You Need to Know About Christian Mingle

Below you will find a few more resources about Christian Mingle we have put together for you. If you are interested in getting to know more about Christian Mingle site and how it works, the cost to sign up, and the overall rating of their online dating service then check out the links below.

Elite Singles | Online Dating Site Bio

homepage screenshot of Elite Singles dating app
Screenshot of Elite Singles dating site

History of Elite Singles


Elite Singles is one of the online dating platforms of the Spark Network, which is a European based online dating provider. The Spark Network merged with Affinitas GmbH in 2017 increasing to a portfolio of nine different niche-based online dating websites.

Elite Singles, just as the name implies was created for the slightly older, affluent individual seeking a serious relationship with matches of a similar background.

Founders of Elite Singles

Elite Singles was started by co-founders, David Khalil and Lukas Brosseder. These gentlemen started the company Affinitas GmbH in Berlin, Germany back in 2008, and their first online dating platform was eDarling, which still successfully operates across 20 countries to this day. Elite Singles was then launched in 2009 and was created for the educated, business professional to find lasting love through online dating.

The decision to create an online dating website happened in a matter of only six to eight weeks prior to eDarling’s initial launch. Kahlil and Brosseder, were entrepreneurs who recognized the enormous potential of the already booming online dating industry, and they were motivated to find a way to do it even better. Their dating websites became extremely successful across Germany and the European Markets and gained the attention of The Spark Network which was home to dating brands such as JDate, Attractive World, and Christian mingle to name a few.

David Khalil, co-founder of Affinitas GmbH, served as their Chief Executive Officer in 2008, and as the Managing Director from 2008 to 2016. In 2017, when Affinitas GmbH merged with the Spark Network, Khalil became Director of the Board and a board chairman at Sparks Networks, Inc. and the Administrative Board Chairman at Spark Networks SE.

Prior to his time as an entrepreneur with Affinitas GmbH, David Kahlil, received a master’s degree in business administration from WHU – Otto Beisheim School of Management in Vallendar, Germany, where his studies focused on Entrepreneurship and Corporate Finance. After receiving his master’s degree, Kahlil, worked as an investment manager and business consultant from 2006 to 2008 just prior to creating his own company alongside co-founder and former roommate, Lukas Brosseder.

Lukas Brosseder, also studied business administration at WHU – Otto Beisheim School of Management in Vallendar, Germany and graduated in 2008. HE first worked at management consulting prior to the development of Affinitas GmbH with his former roommate, David Kahlil. Bosseder was originally from Munich, Germany. Brosseder is now an active angel investor at Saarbruecker21, a group of very successful entrepreneurs who help young start-ups by investing not only time by sharing their real-world entrepreneurial knowledge and experience, but also their money.

What Type of Singles Does Elite Singles Cater to?

Elite Singles caters to approximately 165,000 new members each month. These members (90 percent actually) are primarily in the age group of 30-55 years of age. A whopping 82 percent of Elite Singles online dating users are said to hold some form of a college degree. Elite Singles is an online dating site which truly caters to a slightly older, affluent or educated, busy professional who is looking for a long-term, committed relationship with another college educated professional. Elite Singles is not designed for casual dating.

The online dating website caters to singles across the United States, however they also have online dating platforms in the United Kingdom, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, Canada, and South America. In total, their online dating presence spans across 25 countries. The company claims to have 25,000 new members every week, and every 8 minutes someone finds love through their online dating site or app.

If you are a busy professional seeking a serious relationship, then Elite Singles caters to you. No matter your race, religion or sexual preference, Elite Singles has a large network of educated singles ready to meet you. If you are a Millennial, then this site is not really geared towards you as their main market is toward the college educated individual over the age of 30.

Elite Singles Industry Reputation

There is a lot of good to be said about the niche product that Elite Singles offers. With so many online dating options out there these days, Elite Singles, is one of very few that has honed-in on a specific age group and demographic with great success. They are geared toward the busy professional who doesn’t have countless hours to sit and sift through an endless list of potential matches. No, they want to get in and get out, just like their annoying P&L meeting each week.

Some might criticize that Elite Singles misses out on a lot of new members due to those very niche groups. Millennials are not frequent users of Elite Singles site due to the age group among most users, as well as the lack of capability with their mobile dating app. It has been said the mobile dating app is not the best, and perhaps on purpose to deter the youngsters away. Millennials are more apt to use their phones, whereas a business professional is using a laptop or desktop computer frequently throughout their day. The desktop version of the online dating site is by far better than the mobile app, so perhaps start there first before trying the mobile site.

Another criticism is the lack of ability to use the online dating site without a paid membership. Many people choose to upgrade to a paid membership to have the ability to fully use the site, after all it is an online dating service, and as we all know, services cost money. Always ensure the benefit of using the full site is worth your while, we always recommend testing an online dating site out first by utilizing a free trial period if offered.

The signup process for Elite Singles is known to be very extensive with a lengthy questionnaire which takes approximately 45 minutes to complete. The questionnaire (although lengthy) is totally worth every second of effort you put into it. Elite Singles puts a lot of focus into finding you truly great matches from their network of business professionals. They send you a handful of amazing matches each day who have similar interests and values to yours, so you are not overwhelmed with trying to search for Mr. or Mrs. Right, they are delivered right to your door, or inbox so to speak.

Overall, Elite Singles is a great option for the educated busy professional. You save time searching for matches because they are provided for you; no searching through pages and pages of potential online dating matches to see if you can find a few that “might” work out. The user profiles are very thorough and all similarities with your online dating match will be highlighted for your ease and convenience.

Elite Singles has very extensive security and verification processes so fake profiles are a non-issue for its subscriber base. These pros of using Elite Singles outweighs any potential cons and makes it undeniably the best option out there for the educated, busy professional seeking a serious, long-term, loving relationship.

Things You Need to Know About Elite Singles

Below you will find a few more resources about Elite Singles we have put together for you. If you are interested in getting to know more about Elite Singles site and how it works, the cost to sign up, and the overall rating of their online dating service then check out the links below.

eHarmony | Online Dating Site Bio

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History of eHarmony


Founded on August 22nd, 2000, in Pasadena, California, eHarmony is one of the most recognizable online dating sites in the U.S. Before eHarmony became the online dating sensation it is today, it had its first beginnings in 1995 as a dating seminar company called Neil Clark Warren & Associates. Created by its founders Dr. Neil Clark Warren and his son-in-law, Greg Forgatch, the dating seminar company gained much success and by the year 2000. With the help of some private and non-private investors, the dating seminar launched into what is now the online dating platform known simply as eHarmony.

eHarmony has its headquarters located in Los Angeles, California, a popular headquarter location for many online dating providers. In 2000, eHarmony was started with a $3 million investment and was the first of its kind in the realm of online dating, utilizing the first ever algorithm style model of online match making. From 2009 – 2012, eHarmony reached great successes. In 2009, the company had a total revenue of $1 billion, and by 2012, they had captured 14 percent of the U.S. online dating market.

Their great success was followed by a financial and subscriber base lull, so from 2012 – 2016 Dr. Neil Clark Warren came out of his retirement and took over as the company’s Chief Executive Officer. To help make the company more profitable, Warren designated a new board, and elected a new advertising firm to launch all new branding and a full advertising campaign. eHarmony had their sights set on re-invigorating the brand name with the American people. The advertising campaign featuring founder, Dr. Neil Clark Warren, made him one of the most recognized matchmakers in the U.S. This personal touch campaign worked well with the American people.

In 2017, eHarmony is noted to have 750,000 paid subscribers and 10 million active users total.  In 2009 the online dating site had 33 million users total, so their subscriber base is still down from their peak in 2009. This is largely due to the emergence of other online dating platforms trying to get a piece of the $3 billion dollar a year revenue generating pie; a pie which will only continue to grow.

Founders of eHarmony

When founders, Dr. Neil Clark Warren and his son-in-law, Greg Forgatch, started eHarmony did they ever think the site would become as popular as it is today? Maybe. eHarmony claims that every 2.65 minutes there is a marriage between two eHarmony users, a very impressive statistic indeed.

Warren remained actively involved in the company until 2016 when he stepped down as CEO at the age of 82 years old. Warren played a very active role in eHarmony’s success, development, and rebranding. His son-in-law, Greg Forgatch, retired as CEO and co-founder of eHarmony back in 2006. Forgatch remained serving on the board for eHarmony until 2011.

Dr. Neil Clark Warren has quite the impressive list of accomplishments that most people only wish they could attain in their lifetime. Warren has made thousands of appears between television and radios shows such as The Oprah Winfrey Show, Fox News, CNN, ABC, CBS and the 700 Club to name a few.  Dr. Warren has written 10 books, including “Finding the Love of Your Life,” a national best-seller, selling over 1 million copies. He is also the face of the eHarmony advertising campaign.

In addition to his experience, the co-founder of eHarmony, Dr. Neil Clark Warren, is a highly educated man. He holds several degrees from well-known and highly regarded universities. In 1956, Warren graduated from Pepperdine University in Malibu, California with his undergraduate degree. In 1959, Warren graduated from Princeton’s Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey, with a Master of Divinity degree. In 1967, Warren graduated from The University of Chicago in Chicago, Illinois, with his PhD in Clinical Psychology.

After completing his extensive schooling, Dr. Neil Clark Warren, worked for the next 35 years in clinical psychology. His therapy was focused on marriage compatibility issues which is how he become such an expert in the field of relationships and match making. Dr. Warren developed the “Dimensions of Compatibility” which he claims are what define a successful relationship.

There are 29 characteristics that make up these dimensions of compatibility, and 4 categories in which they are classified. The four categories include: character and constitution, personality, emotional makeup and skills, family and values. These 29 characteristics of a successful relationship are the core in which eHarmony was developed and has operated on all these years. The algorithms are designed to filter users based upon these characteristic traits.

What Type of Singles Does eHarmony Cater to?

If you are looking for a serious, long-term relationship then eHarmony caters to you. If you are a heterosexual looking for love, then eHarmony caters to you. If you are seeking a same-sex relationship, then eHarmony’s sister site, Compatible Partners, is there for you too. If you meet the minimum application age of 21 years old, then you are eligible to apply for an online dating profile with eHarmony.

The company believes that “opposites attract, then attack,” so they have all perspective members complete a questionnaire which now contains 150 questions verses the original 400 plus questions they started with. In 2016, eHarmony announced users would no longer be required to complete the lengthy questionnaire to utilize eHarmony’s services. For users who are familiar with other online dating platforms where all you need is a picture to sign up, this was great news. However, to get the full effect of using eHarmony it is highly recommended to complete the questionnaire.

The questionnaire is designed to determine your character traits and then match you to someone with similar beliefs, values, and interests. eHarmony tries to match you based upon your commonality with another person as they believe this is the glue and foundation of healthy, lasting relationships. In 2017, eHarmony released a new feature called “The Two of You Together.” This feature allows online daters to see who scored at the highest compatibility levels with them, and the reason why they scored so highly.

eHarmony’s Industry Reputation

There has been a lot of criticism over eHarmony’s processes and claims over the years, but none of which can take away from the fact eHarmony offers one of the best online dating platforms in the world.

In 2012 and 2018, the Scientific community stated that since eHarmony would not make their algorithms available to the scientific community for review, their algorithms could not be verified as being scientifically based. Obviously, if eHarmony made their algorithms public knowledge other companies could swoop in and try to steal their business model. These algorithms are the intellectual property of eHarmony and they do not need to be released to anyone.

In 2014, eHarmony was attacked by the Better Business Bureau’s National Advertising Division concerning eHarmony’s success rate claims made in their commercials. One such claim is that every 2.65 minutes a couple who met on eHarmony gets married.

Other criticism has been over eHarmony’s long-standing lengthy questionnaire that has been a part of their process since the inception back in 2000. However, in 2016 the company announce it was making the questionnaire optional for all new members moving forward.

No matter the criticism eHarmony has faced, they have always placed their focus on what matters most, the quality of the match making of their online dating website. Other professionals in the industry have stated that because of eHarmony’s higher rate of membership, and lengthy questionnaire, they are able to deter away users who are only interested in casual dating. This means that people looking for serious long-term relationships are more attracted to eHarmony’s services. eHarmony offer an exceptional product… love, and who doesn’t want that?

Things You Need to Know About eHarmony

Below you will find a few more resources about eHarmony we have put together for you. If you are interested in getting to know more about eHarmony’s site and how it works, the cost to sign up, and the overall rating of their online dating service then check out the links below.

Written By: Jason Lee

Jason Lee is a journalist and data analyst with a passion for studying online dating, relationships, personal growth, healthcare, and finance. In 2008, Jason earned a Bachelors of Science from the University of Florida, where he studied business and finance and taught interpersonal communication.

His work has been featured in the likes of The USA Today, MSN, The Motley Fool, Net Health, and The Simple Dollar. As a business owner, relationship strategist, dating coach, and officer in the U.S. military, Jason enjoys sharing his unique knowledge base with the rest of the world.